to lie and chaet or not to

i once asked someone why people lie and they didn't know how to answer that. i asked why they themselves lie and they came up with different instances that they have lied and tried to explain why they lied.
basically people lie because for one reason or another the truth is not very pleasant.

personally i do lie a couple of times mostly because i don't care for those i lie to or i care too much that the truth might hurt them. mostly i only lie when i have to and generally avoid little white lies and I'll tell you for a fact you don't get so many friends that way

perhaps the worst kind of lies is those that we tell to those we love or care about.a situation today got me thinking about all these stuff. for the purpose of discretion I'll use 3 fictional characters to expound on the situation.

the main character in this little movie is a girl, lady rather by the name Stacy.Stacy is young, pretty and has a boyfriend one that she loves or doesn't (i don't know for sure).besides her boyfriend Stacy has a thing on the side... a boy lets call him  uum...kim. kim is awesome hehehe (and its not me)

so stacy pretty much has two things going on. eating from two plates if you may. however, stacy, kim and stacy's boyfriend all know each other, live in the same neighborhood and run into each other quite often.
needless to say it wouldnt be long before the cat is out of the basket.

a few not so nice in-boxes and boyfriend's prying eyes later, the cats out.

Stacy is obviously dumped (i assume) she is devastated depending on the immensity of love in their relationship.

kim apart from sending the messages has no fault really but the funniest thing is mostly everybody would be out to get kim not considering that this guy kim was the only one not lying or being lied to.so the only hero in this story is dubbed the villain.

considering the case Muchi some village idiot i know from somewhwere says the best thing is to be lying and be cheating as well. it is just the safest option.

he says the chances of trusting someone you are with is just as good as trusting the weather mid year. the best you can do is carry your umbrella and hope it does not rain. in the case of relationships is cheat and hope the same is not happening on the other end.

i sure as hell hope Stacy's boyfriend had an umbrella or he is gona be one soaked guy

they say the fastest way to forget a woman is to be on top of another and the opposite applies for forgetting a man.hint hint.

thinking about it i choose to go with the above. you just cannot trust the weather mid year.
however, i hear love can forgive anything (i don't know how true that is) but i have seen the likes of Stacy forgive the unforgivable

anyway i wish Stacy and her boyfriend godspeed in mending the issue and pat kim on the back.